ann romney how snow says she wa briefly worried over the sharp tongue she used last week. last nightean leno's "tonight show," mrs. romney was asked about her "stop it" remark on radio. >> i liked seeing you get mad. did you get feedback? >> no, no. i steppedut of the interview and said, oh dearas a lo strong. everyone i've seen has givenmy high fives. >>> joining me now is melissa harris-perry, host of the melissa harris-perry show here on msnbc. she went ono give a little more baground of her frustration. t'takeomen wteou y, tt four years ago, it's a hard thing to do this, especially being the wife and having to listen to all this stuff all the time. four years ago i made a videotape and on the videotape i look in the camera and i said, mitt, this is for your, sweethrt. mev dhiag >> oh, really. >> yes. and i showed it to him and he looked at it and he said, you know, ann, you say that after every pregnancy. >> not a time taped video or time capsule after the second, irou sth we have been watching a lot of people being critical of ann romney's tougher tone as she talked f